There are a variety of things! Museums, parks, zoos, beaches! Here is a list of activities.
Used bookstore with a wide selection between fiction and non-fiction books.
The cat room's spacious and kept clean with air filters, which is helpful for anyone who's slightly allergic but still wants their cat fix. It doesn't tend to get crowded either, so it's pretty easy to have at least one cat to hang out with. Admissions are on the hour, so make sure to reserve ahead of time!
We come here every few weekends, since they have an indoor exhibit by the entrance that rotates seasonally between themes like orchids, house plants, bromeliads, and (most recently) carnivorous plants! They also have an expansive outdoor section featuring a variety of plants year-round.
The city of San Diego's tallest point, featuring a clear view of Lake Murray and the ocean out by the horizon. The hike gets steep the further in you go, but it never involves actual rock climbing.
Beachside cliffs alongside a small beach town area that we humans share with the seals there. Finding parking nearby can be difficult, so we usually park south of Pearl St on Eads Ave and walk over. La Jolla itself has a lot of small shops and eateries, so the journey there should still be interesting. Give the seals some room!
La Jolla Shores is an open beach about 2 mi away from La Jolla Cove and a panoramic view of both La Jolla Cove and Torrey Pines State Reserve.
5 mi trail around a manmade lake. Carry water on the hike, because there isn't any water available on the trail. There are no shortcuts, so if you decide partway in that you want a shorter hike, you will have to turn around and walk all the way back.
This one's more of a historial building than park, but there's still lots of room to wander around and picnic at. Peacocks can be sighted here.
Open space area with a lot of intermingling hiking trails of varying difficulty. This means lots of opportunities to turn back or try a different detour if you change your mind about your trail along the way. It has multiple entrances too: One off of Clairemont Mesa Blvd, another at the Visitor Center Loop Trailhead, and a third at the Mission Trails Regional Park Foundation, and parking is easy to find at all three. We've done part of Father Junipero Serra Trail, as well as several of the trails starting from the Clairemont Mesa Blvd side. As a bonus, if you entered via the Clairemont Mesa Blvd side, Convoy with all of its good food is a short westward drive on that same street!
One of San Diego's more well-known areas for long walks on a beach and long hikes overlooking it; both north to the Sunset Seat and south all the way up an actual hill! Hikers can make their way up Torrey Pines Park Rd, while people looking for a more relaxing walk along the shore can go south past Lifeguard Hut Tower 1 until Flat Rock. Finding parking near the water might be tempting, but free parking's near impossible to get, and the paid parking can cost a bit. We usually park for free on Carmel Valley Rd along the curb near McGonigle Rd and walk southwest through the paid parking lot and up the ramp to N Torrey Pines Rd.
The name is fitting — it's a great place for panoramic views of the sunset from the top of the cliffs. If you're planning to catch the sunset here on a weekday, it's best to get here via Point Loma and Liberty Station to dodge the evening traffic, since Ocean Beach tends to be crowded. (Parking is similar too; the north part near all of the shops at Ocean Beach is hard to find parking in, but the south part by all the residentials is easier.)
If you enjoy dropping by local libraries, this one's on a hill with an ocean view, and they know it — the back has glass windows, as well as a wide open deck for anyone wanting to sit outside to enjoy the breeze.
The Mingei focuses on international art. We enjoyed it for its mainstays, as well as the rotating exhibit at the time we went on large Japanese signs from centuries ago.
The natural history museum here features exhibits on different animals, as well as a rotating exhibit.
They mostly sell used video games and some accessories. Their pricing and ranking system is fair, and they have a decent selection.
San Diego's world-renowned zoo, which recently had several baby animals born. Some of this year's babies include Andean bears, Amur leopards, and a red panda!
Try this place out for a more novel zoo experience! They have a tram ride around the open space, where the animals can move around more freely and interact with one another. The rest of the Safari Park also acts as a smaller zoo.
San Diego is well-known for its Mexican food scene, but they have a handful of other good food too.
If you're looking for Asian food in particular, most of it will be around an area formally known as Kearny Mesa that locals refer to as 'Convoy' because of Convoy St.
Otherwise, if you know what you're craving, here's what we recommend!
Crispy, freshly baked-to-order empanadas that come piping hot. We especially like the criolla, which has steak, onion, olives, and egg in it. They'll be at the wedding for lunch!
You have to make a reservation. We would recommend going with a larger group of people so you can enjoy multiple pots of tea. Get the full tea service for the full experience.
Our favourite for brunch food, especially their eggs benedict and the variety in their pancakes. This place is brunch only — they close down at 02:00 PM every day.
We go here specifically for salads, since they're usually full of flavors and feature a wide breadth of ingredients to make the texture different between each one. Don't let that they're salads fool you; they're big enough to be a meal by themselves. We always get the Tea Leaf Salad and the Rainbow Salad here. They'll be at the wedding for lunch!
They specialize in Cantonese-style noodle dishes (egg and rice), both fried and in soup. Their fried noodles in particular have that charred 鑊氣 (wok hei) flavor that makes these kinds of dishes so fragrant.
All-day dim sum! Instead of carts, dim sum here is made-to-order, so it takes a bit to get out, but tastes fresh. Don't forget to get some lava custard buns for dessert!
We strongly recommend the century egg and eggplant dish. However, if you don't like century egg, this may not be the dish for you. The minced pork with pickled vegetables and bamboo shoots is pretty good too, but very spicy.
Pulled noodles restaurant, so get their pulled noodle dishes. We particuarly enjoyed their tomato and egg with pulled noodles.
Szechuan/Sichuan food. Everything is fairly spicy here, so be warned.
Everything we have got there we have enjoyed, so if you enjoy Ethiopian food, we would reocmmend this place. For folks that are not familiar with Ethiopian food, some things to consider. The flatbread - injera - is sourdough based. Curry is often eaten with said injera.
Features primarily Latin American dishes with an Asian spin on them, like Thai tea-flavored flan for dessert. We get their Lomo Saltado, which is best eaten right away since their fries are soft and fluffy on the inside and the beef flank is juicy when chewed on. Their drinks are good too: We loved the Maracuyá (passion fruit juice) and Yuzu Lemonade.
We go here specifically to get some form of katsu, since they know how to get it with crispy, crumbly breading outside and tender, juicy meat inside. For something less crispy, try the Katsu Don, which has an egg fragrantly cooked over it.
Fairly expensive, but tasty modern omakase. You may need to make a reservation.
They do a little bit of everything with Japanese cuisine, but we particularly like their bento sets.
Our favorite for ramen overall. Their specialty's chashu, which is full of flavor that comes out the longer you chew on it. We also liked how much lighter the broth is, relative to many other ramen places, so it avoids being too rich to finish at the end. Go here if you care a lot about the chashu and the broth.
A local favorite for ramen, especially for their made-in-house noodles and softboiled ramen eggs. Go here if the ramen noodles themselves and the ramen eggs are a bigger deal to you.
All-you-can-eat shabu shabu, but they start putting food away an hour before they close, so you can't eat whatever they put away.
We particularly like their eel kamameshi, and the bento sets are pretty good too. You can't really go wrong here, as all the food has been delicious.
They do more modern sushi rolls here. Everything that we've gotten has been good.
Upscale Edo-mae sushi. Sit at the bar if you are able and get the omakase. Be prepared to spend money.
All you can eat Korean BBQ with delicious sides. For the sides, we like the pickled radish wraps, kimchi, and rice paper. We often get the brisket meat to grill.
They specialize in beef bone broth, but their seafood pancakes are good as well. The seafood pancake is a large portion, so we would recommend getting it for the table.
Mediterranean build-your-own bowl/pita/salad. We like their Chicken Shawarma bowls, and load it with all of the toppings (including the extra ones) to eat with their Garlic Sauce. They'll be at the wedding for dinner!
We go here specifically to get seafood dishes. They make our favorite Mexican shrimp cocktails (milder in flavor to let the shrimp itself shine) and we love getting their ceviches too. If you're looking for something more spicy, give their shrimp aguachiles a try: It's too fiery for either of us to get a full size of regularly, but Huy enjoyed it (with some breaks between bites).
(multiple locations) 30 minutes from the border is a cafeteria-looking thing where you line up to ask for tacos to be made-to-order. They're open late too, complete with brightly lit parking lot, if you have the late night munchies.
(multiple locations) Yeah, it's called The Taco Stand, but get the burritos here. Oh, and the nopal taco's pretty good too.
(multiple locations) Their main specialties are tacos. They serve more modern tacos rather than street tacos. They'll be at the wedding for dinner!
Works for both a meal and dessert: Their Aussie Meat Pie makes a great meal, and we end with the Lemon Curd and Mixed Berry Hand Pie (Yan's favorite) and a Guava Cream Cheese Hand Pie (Huy's favorite). They'll be at the wedding for dinner!
(multiple locations) Fish and chips, featuring crispy ~~fries~~ chips with soft, potato-y goodness on the inside. Their more street food-y dishes like fish tacos or fish and chips shine the most.
Southern-style food with a different menu (Surf vs. Soul) depending on the day of the week. Both are great, though it almost feels like two separate restaurants from how they run. Their blackened seafood dishes are full of sauce, and they devein their shrimp to avoid that stench from it. Their hours vary a lot, so don't forget to check before going.
Fairly authentic Thai food. We would recommend the Tom Yum and Tom Kha.
We go here for their Uyghur noodle dishes, in particular the House Laghman and the Laghman Soup. We haven't found them on the menu after they rebranded from Kroran Uyghur Cuisine, but they still offer it when we ask. The House Laghman features tender beef in a gravy sauce mixed with vegetables. The Laghman Soup is a smooth tomato-based soup with that features the same noodles as the House Laghman.
Our favorite phở in San Diego County, which could easily match up against what Orange County has to offer. Service here is efficient, so waiting to get a seat or to get food never takes long.
European bakery featuring less sweet desserts. Get their bear claws, apple turnovers. We would not recommend the small cakes. The pastries are where they shine. They'll be at the wedding as a dessert for dinner!
Cantonese bakery. It's tasty. Get their egg custard buns and cocktail buns.
A more novel Chinese bakery that sports desserts like jujube cake, fruit mochi (with actual fruit inside!), and miniature cakes. Nothing there is all that sweet, which keeps them from becoming fatiguing. They'll be at the wedding as a dessert for lunch!
Makes one of the smoother black milk teas out there in their Black Jade Milk Tea Creamomo, which comes with soft, chewy boba, and optionally cheese foam or tiramisu foam on top. That said, the milk tea itself is worth it on its own too, even without the fancier toppings like the boba or foam. It frequently has lines out the door, so expect to wait a bit unless you show up at opening.
This is Huy's favorite for Okinawa Milk Tea for how roasty and full of brown sugar flavour it is. Their Jasmine Milk Tea's also pleasantly floral. Their strength is in milky drinks.
We usually get fruity drinks here, which tend to use fruit in the drinks like lychee bits, passion fruit seeds, or lemons. They have a good selection of both caffeinated and non-caffeinated drinks. Their Lady Bug and Guava Sunset are our go-tos. They'll be at the wedding as our boba bar!
We enjoyed the Aloha Mango Green Tea, Urban Milk Tea (black milk tea), and mango sago. Lower the sweetness though. Don't use the kiosk, order at the counter. Also, the line forms to the right, not to the left.
Cookies! These will be at the wedding for folks looking for snacks.
The constant part of their menu comes out so fresh out of the oven that it actually hurts to pick up, and has nice soft consistency when eaten. Their seasonal menu features a ton of options, with a big box at the cash register just to showcase what they offer.
Heavier, cake doughnuts that are not too sweet. Even their more boring flavors end up tasting good since you can taste the flavor of the doughnut itself. They'll be at the wedding as a dessert for lunch!
(multiple locations) All their gelato is good.
Tasty gelato that has more modern flavors rather than traditional flavors of gelato.
Japanese bakery making fresh, soft mochi featuring a variety of flavors. Since it never tastes all that sweet, it avoids being fatiguing. It was originally owned and run by an elderly couple until their recent retirement, though the quality still remains as good.
A more novel Chinese bakery that sports desserts like jujube cake, fruit mochi (with actual fruit inside!), and miniature cakes. Nothing there is all that sweet, which keeps them from becoming fatiguing. They'll be at the wedding as a dessert for lunch!
(multiple locations) Despite their name, they're a bona fide ice cream shop. Each location has a different name, but they all start with "An's". If you want something dairy-free, try their Palate Cleanser, which is a mojito sorbet! Their other sorbets are all refreshing too, and mix well together. For milky ice cream, Velor is the way to go. However, if you're indecisive, they do tasting tours where you can try a little bit of everything and then decide.
Julian Pies are that local dessert that most San Diegans know and love, but isn't often well-known to visitors. While their full menu is available at the Julian location, their more standard flavors are usually available at grocery stores here like Jimbo's, which is great for anyone not interested in making the 1 hour trek out to Julian. For anyone who does though, give their apple cider doughnuts (which run out quickly) and natural apple pie (an unsweetened apple pie) a try.
Works for both a meal and dessert: Their Aussie Meat Pie makes a great meal, and we end with the Lemon Curd and Mixed Berry Hand Pie (Yan's favorite) and a Guava Cream Cheese Hand Pie (Huy's favorite). They'll be at the wedding for dinner!