FAQ

We'll let you know on your invitation! If it's someone we haven't met yet, we'll ask you for their name to enter them into our RSVP system.

Since we'll need to place orders for food, we'd appreciate it if you can get back to us by October 11.

It's probably less hassle to get here before the wedding and leave shortly after.

You might be up against (American) Thanksgiving traffic if you decide to return home the weekend before Thanksgiving.

We don't have one. We'd just be happy to see you there to hang out!

If you still really, really want to bring something, we'd love a written or digital copy of your favorite recipe.

Or if you really, really want to do something with your money, feel free to donate to your local library instead.

Why would we want to have a traditional wedding?

Come as you'd see us any other day! We're treating this as more hangout than ceremony.

You're still welcome to dress up too if you'd like, but we won't be wearing anything formal ourselves.

Yourselves!

Seriously, that's it. We'd be happy just to see you! We'll have food, drinks, board games, and whatever else.

It's an indoor venue, so hopefully that won't matter too much. Since the weather during that time has varied a lot depending on the year, it's probably best to check the weather before you leave.

For reference, here's some historical data for November 11 with highs / lows from during the time that the wedding will be (09:00 AM - 10:00 PM):

• Around November 11, 2022, it was mostly clear skies with a high of 67°F / 19°C and a low of 61°F / 16°C. Winds hit a maximum speed of 13 mph / 21 km/h at around 03:00 PM.

• Around November 11, 2021, it was clear skies with a high of 84°F / 29°C and a low of 73°F / 23°C. Winds hit a maximum speed of 12 mph / 19 km/h at noon.

There's no formal seating chart on a per-person basis. It'll be open seating, though some tables will have signs for topics (for example: "food", "cats", "art", "video games") to make it a bit less socially awkward.

Unfortunately not. He's a bit of a shy boy, so we figured we'd avoid stressing him out with all of the environment changes.

There won't be alcohol at the wedding, but we will have a boba bar.

Unfortunately, southern California is not known for having the most reliable public transit.

• If you'll only need a car a few times during your trip, Uber / Lyft is probably the least hassle.

• If you'll need a car much more frequently, then it might be cheaper to rent a car.

• If you're leaving San Diego County at all, then it's most convenient to rent a car. Leaving the county will be difficult otherwise.

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We'll have a Google Photos album that anyone can upload to, though we'll announce the link at the event itself.

If Google Photos isn't your favorite place to upload things, talk to us separately and we can figure something out.

We're camera shy!